For reason unknown to me, I started thinking about second chances. Why we give them away like its no big deal? For me, you’ve gotta deserve a second chance and honestly, there are people out their that will never get another opportunity. Regardless of whether we’re talking about relationships or friendships, I’m a firm believer that you must work for a second chance. Nothing’s easy in life so why should you be able to mess up everything and expect a warm and welcome return? People have become so lax about letting things “slide” or just not caring…why?! If someone hurts you or messes you up so badly that they cause you pain, why are you letting them back in your life? They’re coming back because it’s convenient for them. They’re lonely, their last fling fizzled, they’re bored, oh the possibilities are endless as to why they want back in. But do me a favor, think twice before you let them back in. There was a reason it didn’t work out before and history has a way of repeating itself. Don’t treat second chances like they aren’t valuable, make that person work for it. No one deserves to have it easy after they’ve hurt you. It’s as simple as that.
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